Wishes and regrets: I wish/if only

Wishes and regrets: I wish/if only

Exercise 1

Choose the correct options to complete the text.

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Dear Mum,

I feel really unhappy! I wish I 1 didn't acceptwouldn't accepthadn't accepted this job. If only I 2 had listenedlistenedwould listen to you before I made the decision to come here. The people here are unfriendly. l wish they 3 would bewerehad been more friendly. And I don't even have breaks! If only I 4 would havehadhad had longer breaks.

Looking at a computer screen all day is tiring; I wish my computer 5 would explodeexplodewill explode! And I wish my boss 6 stoppedwould stophad stopped yelling at me all the time. He's always in a bad mood. It's so annoying! Also, I wish there 7 had beenwould bewere someone here I could talk to, but there is no one I can talk to. I haven't made any friends. If only I 8 madewould have madehad made some friends when I arrived here, but meeting new people is very difficult. I wish you 9 would livehad livedlived nearer to me. If only I 10 would seecould have seencould see you more often!

Please write soon. I miss you!

Love,
Mary

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I wish I did

We can use wish + subject + past simple to talk about things that we would like to be different in the present or future (but that are very unlikely or impossible).

• I wish things were different, but this is the way they are.  
• We wish we had enough money to help you.
• I wish I could be there for you tomorrow.  

I wish I had done

We can use wish + subject + past perfect to talk about things that happened in the past and that we regret (we would have wanted them to be different).

• I wish I hadn’t quit my job two years ago. 
• I wish we hadn’t wasted all that money. 

I wish you would do

We can use wish + person/thing + would + infinitive when we talk about situations that annoy us and would like them to change or to stop.

• I wish you would stop biting your nails. I hate it when you do it.
• I wish it would stop raining. It’s been three days!

We can NOT use this structure to wish about ourselves:

• I wish I would…

If only

We can use if only instead of I wish with a very similar meaning. The only difference is that if only is more emphatic.

• If only I was/were a bit taller!*
• If only you had followed my advice. 
• If only you would make a bit of an effort. You are wasting your life! 

🔍 Note that we can use were instead of was with I/he/she after I wish/if only.